Unlearning

My public journal where I share weekly reflections on how I’m unlearning.

How to New York

How to New York

I was in New York last week for the first time in five years.

How to Prompt

How to Prompt

I’ve been turning to AI more often than I care to admit.

How to Friend

How to Friend

It is more about how I feel around them

How to Become

How to Become

Sometimes, distance creates clarity.

How to Blackout

How to Blackout

Disconnection, it turns out, is not the opposite of connection.

How to Start

How to Start

Resistance grows in imagination, but shrinks in the doing

How to Anything

How to Anything

When everything matters, it becomes hard to tell what really does.

How to Learn

How to Learn

Not the kind of question meant to impress, but the kind that carries the weight of genuine curiosity.

How to Write

How to Write

"How do you write so much?" For a long time, I would say what many say: just start.

How to Make Friends

How to Make Friends

It is a deep question that requires first going inwards before going outwards

How to Five Years

How to Five Years

This past week marked five years since that collective pause.

How to North Pole

How to North Pole

I realized I was staring at a part of the world rarely seen by anyone.

How to Bali

How to Bali

What feels most striking about Bali isn't any single aspect but rather the ease with which apparent opposites coexist.

How to Surprise Myself

How to Surprise Myself

I recently asked ChatGPT today to tell me three things about myself that I didn’t know.

How to Cliffnic

How to Cliffnic

It’s strange how the body can feel perfectly safe while the mind insists otherwise.

How to Love

How to Love

It’s easy to forget that love can exist without being returned.

How to Mirror

How to Mirror

When something doesn’t go as I want, where does my attention go?

How to Bamboo

How to Bamboo

I wasn’t searching for it but felt it found me.

How to 70

How to 70

The answer was simple, true, and, unfortunately, often forgotten.

How to Monopoly

How to Monopoly

The first time I played the game, I was seven.

How to Australian Open

How to Australian Open

Inspiration can come from the unlikeliest of sources

How to Experiment

How to Experiment

Experimentation has been the lifeblood of my philosophy as an adult.

How to 2025

How to 2025

I start each year with a simple ritual that has really shaped my journey.

How to 2024

How to 2024

The waiter had just taken our order.