Unlearning

My public journal where I share weekly reflections on how I’m unlearning.

How to 2023

How to 2023

For nearly a decade, I have had a New Year ritual to pick one single word as my intention for the year ahead.

How to Disconnect

How to Disconnect

My experiment was to go into a silent retreat, in my own home, by myself, for 4 days.

How to Appreciate Scarcity

How to Appreciate Scarcity

When I observe for a moment my daily lifestyle, an abundance mindset guides my choices, without a doubt.

How to Make Peace

How to Make Peace

It mattered less about where we were, what we ate or what we did, but rather who we were with and how we were with each other

How To Relax

How To Relax

If I wanted to feel more relaxed, more often, my default thesis was that I need to make more time and space for relaxing activities

Threads Of Connection

Threads Of Connection

Very few of my friends know what I do, and even those that do don’t seem very interested in knowing more.

The Empire Of Worry

The Empire Of Worry

We all seem to live in our own little, for some large, empires of worry.

One Year In

One Year In

It mattered less about where we were, what we ate or what we did, but rather who we were with and how we were with each other

A Beautiful Day

A Beautiful Day

Spontaneity is also the antidote to overthinking.

Swimming In The Sea

Swimming In The Sea

Flowing with waves of desires arising and disappearing is how I will continue to swim through life.

Third Place Thinking

Third Place Thinking

Every choice, action or word is part of a chain of cause and effect. I appear to be more the effect than the cause in my life.

Annoying Parents

Annoying Parents

It mattered less about where we were, what we ate or what we did, but rather who we were with and how we were with each other

Drive My Car

Drive My Car

There is an energetic quality of trust that is magnetic.

The Most Valuable Real Estate

The Most Valuable Real Estate

There is a piece of real estate that I have discovered to be the most valuable in the world.

The Best Choice

The Best Choice

The desire to pick the best available option is also a fear of making a poor choice.

The Limitations I Avoid

The Limitations I Avoid

My conditioning has been to believe there are no limitations to my time, and that I can do anything, and everything.

Debt v Deficit

Debt v Deficit

The concepts of debt and deficit have relevance to our physical, mental and emotional beings.

How I Feel

How I Feel

There is an expectation that my motivation and interest in some thing, some one or some place, remains constant. Like a straight line.

My Inefficient Life

My Inefficient Life

There is a conflict with my desire for the new, and my conditioning to expect efficiency in every part of life.

I Know

I Know

It may often feel like you must have it all together and figured out in life. That you must know exactly where you are going.

What I Want

What I Want

The moments I have experienced the most stress, anxiety, anger, frustration and disappointment have been when my expectations were many

Making Mistakes

Making Mistakes

The ultimate freedom in life is the freedom to make mistakes.

The Most Important Decision

The Most Important Decision

I have learned that the most important decision is not where to go, but how to get there.

21 Questions To Make Peace With 2021

21 Questions To Make Peace With 2021

It is now to make peace with the past year.